Obsession

obsession is such an unattractive thing. I don't care what your reasons or intentions are. I don't think there's any reason good enough to become so revolved around anyone. I mean, If your trying to annoy someone; that's a hell of a way to do so, but quite affective. The usual case is someone trying to start a connection, not realizing that their impatience will simply lead to the opposite of what they're aiming for. For example: Getting to know someone. It's not something you can just do in a matter of days, let alone minutes. New people take getting used to and if you rush those things, you just become an annoyance. And well, lets face it, there's hardly a nice way of telling someone that they're just trying way too hard. I'm not sure if this would bother the average person as much as myself because I only enjoy attention to an extent. In fact, I try to avoid it in most cases; but obviously that won't always work. I wish people would think things out more often; It would benefit for themselves as well.