Thursday, May 8, 2008

Didn't.See.That.Coming

When two friends are in an arguement or a seemingly forever lasting fight that decides whether you two were truly friends or not, you get to a point where your done being the calm and reasonable one. You know if you kept on trying that you would be able to fix everything, yet again, but you should not have to. That's not how friendships work and I understand that much. I give out too many second chances, but only because I dont think losing friends over little things is a smart thing to do. Infact, its beyond stupid. Grow up and look at what your doing. Your picking fights and losing people you love. You'll regret it, but i wont because atleast I can say I tried. I'm not normally going to be so reasonable and you didnt get that, did you? I'll do anything but let people use me or treat me any way other than what I want. I can be harsh at times, but I can also be nice too.. sometimes too nice. It doesnt sound great to be 'too nice', but its a pretty useful thing to do. It helps you keep friends and it helps things go alot smoother for everyone. However, there is a point where people begin to think that's just me. It's not and ive decided to stop wasting my time. I have real friends and at this moment you have one less. You didn't see that coming, did you?

No comments: